As members of the human race we cannot seem to give a definition of the word love that will justify all that we have done or more importantly not done because of the feeling of love not for another person but love of self. We as homo sapiens tend to be self centered  on what we want as individuals.” I want what I want when I want it.”

We all want to be in charge of our lives, and if possible in charge of other peoples lives. I can look back to Jim Jones , David Koresh, Ariel Castro to name a few that we as a society are glad that they are at “ground temperature.”

We all need to be loved by others but  the truth is you need to love yourself before you can ever say to another person ” I Love You.”